Every year you set out to achieve something big, massive, ambitious and audacious, but every year you fall short. I’m with you. I’ve never actually accomplished a New Year’s Resolution. Recently, however, I’ve been performing at a much higher quality. I’m actually getting the things done that I’ve wanted to get done for a couple […]
THE AESTHETIC ALPHA MALE
As men, we’ve been told and taught our entire lives that one of the truest tests of manhood and masculinity is brute strength. We will go out of way at any given opportunity to display that we are stronger than another man. It’s a way for us to feel superior, and alpha. Like pounding on […]
HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR: 5 LESSONS FROM BLACK BELTS
Fear is a natural response that we have all experienced at some point or another. Don’t get clouded by cockiness; even the toughest of us encounter some sort of anxiety or uneasiness when faced with a stressful situation. However innate it is, we can still discover ways to overcome it. Some of the greatest lessons […]
MANHOOD MUST BE FORGED AND JUDGED
Just as a strong river current will push objects downstream unless they actively swim against it, societal currents will do the same. As a result, part of cultivating manhood in our day is understanding where society pushes against and undermines masculine virtues, and then actively swimming against those currents. Some of the push against masculinity […]
The Man’s Man
One of my favorite terms is “the man’s man”. When we say, he’s a man’s man, the old school kind, everyone seems to know exactly the kind of man being spoken of. It’s this same guy that would think that this article is silly. Who would need to be taught how to be a man? It […]
We Don’t Need to Reinvent Manliness
We don’t need to reinvent manliness. We only need to will ourselves to wake up from the bad dream of the last few generations and reclaim it, in order to extend and enrich that tradition under the formidable demands of the present. –Waller R. Newell Manliness has taken a sharp turn within the last few […]
Appreciate The Harshness of Life
Travel not to relax in ease but to understand the harsh brutality that exists in far more places than the cushy safety of many western cultures. ~Chad Howse Life is brutal. When you get a semblance of this understanding, you understand the value of a dollar, you understand the necessity of life and death and […]
How to Get More Work Done in Less Time
People who are perpetually busy are rarely proportionately successful. ~Chad Howse Being busy doesn’t mean being effective. Usually it just means being busy. (Watch This: Are You Being Effective or Just Keeping Busy?) Our culture praises being busy. We should always be working or look like we’re working. Whether or not we’re doing a great […]
3 Steps to Become More Motivated
The 3 Step Guide to Becoming More Motivated Being motivated is being excited about what you’re attempting to accomplish. Motivation isn’t satisfaction, it’s not looking back, but looking forward at possibilities, and at the present about the arduous tasks that must be accomplished. (Read This: Find Your Purpose) To become more motivated is to be […]
7 STEPS TO BECOMING A LION AMONG SHEEP
You can be anything you want in this world. You can be a fighter, a writer, a hunter, a fisherman, a businessman, a CEO, a prick, a leader, a warrior, a soldier, a father and a husband. It’s incredible the choices we have if we choose to see them as such. Most don’t. The majority […]
7 Steps to Stop Being a Little Bitch
There are times when we feel like victims. We think we’re victimized by a circumstance and our choice leads us to pity ourselves and the predicament we find ourselves in. We turn our attention inwards. We say ‘poor me’. We vent and whine and complain. Or do we? If you do, you shouldn’t. If you […]
Be Strong and Courageous
Be strong and courageous for the Lord is with you wherever you go. Faith makes fear illogical, but fear makes little sense no matter what you believe. Fear is usually fear of the unknown. The solution: know, then decide if you’re still scared. (Read This: Let Fear Be Your Guide) Fear also impedes life. We […]
We’re Teaching Our Boys to Be Victims
A coward can run, or he can simply look the other way. ~Chad Howse [Tweet “A coward can run, or he can simply look the other way.”] It is just as bad to do nothing as it is to flee from your responsibilities, and as a man your responsibility is to defend. Evil exists. It’s […]
STOP BEING SUCH A LITTLE BITCH
When you complain about not having what you want but won’t work to get it, you are a little bitch. ~Chad Howse [Tweet “When you complain about not having what you want but won’t work to get it, you are a little bitch.”] Our avenues to vent are far too many today. Instead of having […]
Life Is One Big Status Quo
Don’t simply accept the status quo if it doesn’t fit your standards. ~Chad Howse You’re surrounded by losers. You’re supposed to share the victim mentality that they live with. You’re supposed to complain and give half-assed effort. But that isn’t you, so you don’t. (Read This: 10 Ways to Go From Victim to Victory) You […]