It’s often easier to figure out how not to do or be something than it is to figure out how to do or be something. There’s a caveat here, though… We’re not just trying to figure out what it means to be a real man. Within the context of manhood – and that creates certain […]

How to stay motivated after a bad break-up Many men and young men are devastated by a break-up. Their future was planned out, certain, and now their notion of what their future would look like is over, and sometimes it hits the fella more than the female. The thing is, right around the time of […]

“A man who has committed a mistake, and doesn’t correct it, is committing another mistake.” Confucius The quality of our decisions, our choices, determines the quality of our lives.  We’ve all seen chronically bad decision-makers. They make decisions off of emotion like love, anger, rage, even jealousy or envy, and they continually find themselves in […]

There’s a lot to be angry about right now… Businesses being told they can’t open… People forced to stay in their homes and cases rise, while other places are completely open and cases are declining… There is no amount of justice great enough to payback what governments are doing to people’s mental health, financial well-being, even our […]

There’s a fine line one must walk between being happy and content, and being ambitious and driven. It’s a difficult balance to find.  To be only driven is to focus almost exclusively on what you do not have, which can distort your judgement, and success is merely the quality of your decisions. So by being exclusively driven, […]

The term ‘greatness’ is tossed around like a floosy these days… When I say greatness, I mean a combination of your potential and real greatness in history or modern times. We can’t JUST talk about our potential because we have no comprehension of just how great we can be. We think we’re relegated to be who we’ve […]

Not everyone wants to be the best… But it’s a man’s duty to be his best…Being ‘his’ best, however, is likely something the world has never seen. We’ve never seen a man truly live out his potential. Some have come close… Maybe a Musk or Teddy Roosevelt, men who work tirelessly for some unknown reason, whose motion […]

Effective self-help or development is choosing long term over short term… Or, choosing what will get you what you want in the long term instead of what you desire in the short term. Compound interest applies to nearly everything, not just investing. The decision to choose good habits has compounding effects over time. You may […]