if those are the only choices you think you can make, then live with the one you make.

I still think there’s an opportunity for an ass-kicking, especially when the world will hear why the ass kicking took place.

I don’t disagree with you, I’d still be unable to NOT go after someone for attacking my women. The problem though is it will further destroy your family. I’m not saying you are wrong. Just that we are going to face horrible consequences if we are ever in this scenario.

Control; how exactly is going 30k in debt, loosing your job, and facing a Felony Conviction going to benefit your women? Your family? until the Weinstein allegations came to light, anyone who assaulted him would have faced the legal team and resources / connections of a multibillion dollar company, and a very hostile legal system. Even AFTER the allegations, the Legal System is still going to RUIN you if you assault him.

This isn’t ‘helplessness’. its cold hard fact, my friend. Use violence in our society, and your women are going to be 100x worse off with you in debt, in jail/prison, jobless, and unable to find a job once you are out because of your felony conviction.

I agree — but you can’t blame someone or something else… it makes you powerless. you have to do what you have to do, take control of what you can control. Men are not helpless, unless they believe they are.

Thats NOT the point, dude. If those husbands and boyfriend’s do that, they’ll be arrested and charged with Felony Assault. Each punch comes with a 10k legal bill.

How are these men going to provide for their families from jail/prison?

This isn’t men’s fault. It’s societal, a zero tolerance legal system.

that’s the point…. they weren’t protecting their family. where there is evil, it has to be combatted with strength. and the husbands and boyfriends of these women weren’t strong.