Comments on: Where Dating Gurus Have It Wrong

By: Chad Howse

Chad Howse — Fri, 04 Apr 2014 04:47:00 +0000

In reply to Tavo. Appreciate it man! I'll look up Luna as well. Thanks for passing his name on. And thanks for the comment, need more guys joining this fight!

By: Chad Howse

Chad Howse — Fri, 04 Apr 2014 04:46:00 +0000

In reply to Anon. Interesting, I'll have a look at that book Anon - thanks.

By: Tavo

Tavo — Fri, 04 Apr 2014 02:03:00 +0000

Good to read this, many guys think they can remain being losers and pick up women using them to compensate their lack of goals and achievements.

One of the few dating gurus I truly respect is the Spaniard Mario Luna. He is a little bit into techniques and stuff like that but his work is much more based on being the man of your own dreams, a “Ganador Ganable” (Winnable Winner), Cuerpo G (W Body, as Winner Body), improving yourself, not comparing yourself with others and stuff like that.

Thank you for influencing men in a positive way. I’m getting tired of self “improvement” bloggers who still see women as numbers and other people as steps to their own goals (which very often are shallow goals such as fame, money above honor, etc) and not as human beings.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 14 Jan 2014 00:09:00 +0000

Thanks so much for this article chad. i think a few things from the pickup community are useful but this point about developing character as a man – this is number one. ive recently started working through a book called No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and its been an incredible insight into making the character of MEN. combined with the ethos behind your work, and a few other sources, I feel like i’ve got the shit I need to make effect.

By: Chad Howse

Chad Howse — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 20:37:00 +0000

In reply to DrTwoTrees. Well said! Great to hear your perspective on this. Thanks for that.

By: DrTwoTrees

DrTwoTrees — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 13:51:00 +0000

Thank God a young man is recognizing the problem. As a person who coaches men to be Alphas, I am continually reiterating to them the so called seduction techniques are not worthy of them as men! As a woman I was appalled. Now, I am no prude ( I grew up in the 70’s…drugs, sex and rock and roll) but the techniques are predominately forms of manipulation. Who wants to be manipulated into sex??? I really don’t think either men or women care for that. As a woman of quality I can tell you we are attracted to men who are well centered in their personal power. We may have NSA sex with the others but for a LTR we are going to choose the latter. As Chad says “Man Up”.