Thanks man. Yes, try, but get yourself in the right spot first. Don’t just chase women and pin your happiness on them. A good relationships is two whole individuals, not two halves trying to make a whole.

And you’ll always find that when you’re not looking is when the good ones come along.

Thanks Betty!

While I understand what you’re saying. How can you get a woman if you don’t go get one? I mean if all you do is focus on working out, your job, studies, business, and don’t actually seek out women, how will you get one? I mean they won’t come looking for you or ask you out or will they? Isn’t part of being a man going after what you want in life?

While I understand the gist of what you’re saying that you shouldn’t be miserable and hold your happiness until you do, you should definitely be living your life and not waiting around until you find a woman

I understand that disappointments in dating and spending too much time “chasing” women can throw you off balance, but just like you said anything worth having takes trials and tribulations, finding a good woman is no different.

But can the life of a man be all that it can be if he does not have a good woman in his life?

Shouldn’t he at least try?

Great article by the way

It’s awesome to get a female perspective on here, we clearly need more of it! Comment more often Kerri. You make so great points, and give awesome insights here, thanks.